CHILDREN

Dealing with an angry child

In dealing with an angry child, try to encourage him or her to deal with the feelings appropriately. Show a child that you are accepting of his or her feelings, while suggesting other ways to express them. For example, you could say, "Let me tell you what some children would do in a situation like this..." It is not enough, however, to tell a child what behaviors you find unacceptable. You must also teach ways of coping and communicate what behavior you expect. Remember, punishment is not the most effective way to reach this objective.

Allow children to feel all their feelings. Don't deny strong feelings. Angry outbursts should not always be viewed as a sign of serious problems; they should be recognized and treated with respect.

Reinforce your child's good behavior by telling him or her what behaviors please you. Ignore inappropriate behavior that can be tolerated. Try to provide physical outlets and other alternatives. Set limits and teach children to express themselves verbally.

For more information on dealing with an angry child, contact a counselor at the BABBCENTER at 824.3772 or 800.458.1755.

Hyperactivity

Hyperactivity, or attention deficit disorder (ADD), is a condition that sometimes appears during early childhood. Many children are overactive, but they usually aren't considered hyperactive unless their actions interfere with normal play, learning, and socializing with other children.

Symptoms of ADD include an extremely short attention span, shifting from activity to activity, sleeping less than children the same age, moodiness, immaturity, recklessness, and aggression. When hyperactivity isn't diagnosed and treated, it can lead to constant disciplining by parents and teachers and to rejection by other children, which may cause emotional problems later.

If you suspect your child is hyperactive, it's important to have him evaluated. It may be a sight or hearing problem, a family difficulty, or a learning disability that is causing his troublesome behavior. Once the condition has been diagnosed, treatment is important. This may consist of counseling, special education programs, or medication. With proper treatment and therapy, most hyperactive children can learn to function normally.

For more information on ADD, talk to your health care professional or the licensed psychological examiner at the BABBCENTER at 824.3772 or 800.458.1755.